Saturday, May 7, 2011

Oh for the love of Mom

We all have had the influence of a mother in our lives at one time or another.  Quite possibly this influence wasn’t even a relative, but perhaps someone who took time to love and nurture you.

On Sunday, May 8th many individuals will pay respect to Moms all over the world - - some who are still with us and some who have transitioned from this life experience.  Billions of flowers will be delivered along with many gifts and cards expressing our love.

May this time, this day, this special holiday be an opportunity for each of us to recognize the love and sacrifice that was made on our behalf.  Regardless of the relationship you currently have with your mother, you must know there were times when she made choices you will never understand.

Many of us became mothers without any formal education on the subject.  As a result, we made mistakes.  We lost our children in department stores and we failed to keep them safe from childhood illness and broken bones. We tried to protect them from playground bullies and instill in them values of how to live their lives.

Sometimes our choices seemed weak and poorly thought out and children suffered.  It could have been finding a new home for the family pet to moving across the country in search of a better way of life.  Whatever has taken place with you in the lead role of parent or the confusing memories of your childhood - - today, this week, is a great time to embrace the joy and the love and let the rest go.

Life on planet earth is too short.  It is not meant for us to harbor regret, pain, anger and disappointment.  Our lives can be rich and fulfilling when we learn to take responsibility for our circumstances and forgive everything and everyone who ever wronged us. 

When you consider at one time in your life, you very possibly, were put into the care of two (or maybe just one) very young individuals who through trial and error learned how to clothe you, feed you and care for you.   You were entrusted into their care and heaven help us all, we survived and in most cases, so did they!

Mothers Day is a day of blessing, love and laughter.  You can take time this week to remember all the Moms who have floated through your life and offer a prayer of thanks.  You can embrace the good memories and let go of any old hurt or sorrow and know your life has unfolded as though each step was part of some grand design.  And your mother has been the angel who volunteered to play a significant part in your health, well-being and development.  Take time to give thanks, for without her, you would not be here today.  That is something to be grateful for, don’t you think?

1 comment:

  1. Simply Beautiful. It is written with soo much love and respect, one cannot miss to express their love for their mom on this special occasion. Again, Thank You for the inspiration you bring to us. Many have forgotten all the trials of becoming and being a mother. But after taking the time to absorb the contents or your blog today, I, personally feel the urge to reconnect with the women in my life who played a role to mold my strength and help me be a better human being, mom and woman. I sincerely appreciate the kind reminder in this message. Happy Mother's Day Dear! Stay Blessed.

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